Life is Contradictory

Life is full of contradictory. For example:
- we want to have more challenging work/life but don’t want to leave the comfort zone.
- we want to be with someone we love but don’t want to commit for the relationship
- we want to have a healthy life but don’t want to spend time and keep it in good condition
- we want to have good career but don’t want to make an effort to build it
- we are avoiding someone but actually want to see him/her badly
- ……............

Sometime, we make our lives very contradictory until we already lost and don’t not have courage to look for what we want.

P.s
J did gave me a song which does list down this kind of contradictory.

有一种想见不敢见的伤痛
这一种想见不能见的伤痛

Hi J, thank for the song. I like the last part very much, especially the last 2 sentences.